You dictate your schedule, your business and life. This is the powerful mindset you need to successfully be a leader. I caution anyone that sees it the other way around. If you WANT to give your control and passion to someone or something else this is not the blog for you.
Yesterday the sun was shining and was the warmest day of 2010. I had planned to be in the office all day. Tuesday coaching sessions start at 6am and wrap up by around 11. I develop new business the rest of the day. That can mean a networking luncheon, follow-up calls, writing this blog or my ezine. Sometimes I schedule my own personal development.
Given the beauty of the day and the call of the convertible I made some adjustments to my plan. Why couldn’t I write, network and research in the wine country? I checked in with my boss (that would be me) and declared it an excellent idea!
I ventured to Bucks County Wine Trail, PA. This was a work day and I planned to do it my way. The beauty of a vineyard is my place of inspiration. As I sat in the sun and sipped wine I focused on all the same tasks I would have in the office.
The people I met either worked at the winery or were business owners in search of a release. It gave me a chance to connect within my niche. Everyone we meet can use your expertise or services someday. Who knows maybe you need there’s, right?
Don’t be afraid to change up your business day. Resentment, longing and frustration are clear indicators you need attitude adjustment. Talk to your boss (that’s you) and get a new perspective on how to get a handle on your schedule, business and life.
WINE ENTHUSIAST RECOMMENDATION:
If you ever get to Bucks County, PA, be sure to visit Crossing Vinyards & Winery. The property is majestic, they have award winning wines, and Mary is absolutely delightful.
If all this sounds unachievable consider giving me a call for Life Coaching.
If you would like to inspire others with your own success stories use this blog to COMMENT!
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Wednesday, March 10, 2010
Friday, February 19, 2010
Open That Bottle Night - Feb. 27, 2010
It's Friday friends - and that means you get less of leadership and more of wine.
February 27th is Open That Bottle Night.
I know what you're thinking, "Jake made that up."
Nope - see for yourself.
I think that might be the right time to introduce Divinitatis Coaching's new wine label. Oh, and open up that bottle.
Use your leadership skills to create an evening with one mission in mind: Open That Bottle!
What will you be doing? Your fellow blog readers really do want ideas - I bet yours is a good one.
February 27th is Open That Bottle Night.
I know what you're thinking, "Jake made that up."
Nope - see for yourself.
I think that might be the right time to introduce Divinitatis Coaching's new wine label. Oh, and open up that bottle.
Use your leadership skills to create an evening with one mission in mind: Open That Bottle!
What will you be doing? Your fellow blog readers really do want ideas - I bet yours is a good one.
Friday, February 5, 2010
Each man set his own standard
There are no standards of taste in wine... Each man's own taste is the standard, and a majority vote cannot decide for him or in any slightest degree affect the supremacy of his own standard. ~ Mark Twain
We like to think we set the standards for others, right? We set the bar or we even raise the bar. But truly it is we that decide for ourselves just which stardard we would follow or set. Thus WE/ YOU set your own standard.
While I know what may be right for another and see in her the possibilities, she must see them for herself. She must decide on her own personal standard for it is only that standard for which she will strive. If you truly want to grow or help another to grow, encourage her to look within first. If you want to help, teach her ways to discover her internal compass for setting her own standard. Your reward for this effort is watching her grow. Who knows, her standards may be far beyond whatever you would have set for her.
These thoughts are a little deep for a Monday - so it's Friday and I'm enjoying a fabulous Zinfandel Hayley's from Kamere Vinyards, CA. Here's a thought when selecting the people with whom you will share your wine:
Keep away from people who try to belittle your ambitions. Small people always do that, but the really great make you feel that you, too, can become great. ~ Mark Twain (1835–1910) American humorist and writer
We like to think we set the standards for others, right? We set the bar or we even raise the bar. But truly it is we that decide for ourselves just which stardard we would follow or set. Thus WE/ YOU set your own standard.
While I know what may be right for another and see in her the possibilities, she must see them for herself. She must decide on her own personal standard for it is only that standard for which she will strive. If you truly want to grow or help another to grow, encourage her to look within first. If you want to help, teach her ways to discover her internal compass for setting her own standard. Your reward for this effort is watching her grow. Who knows, her standards may be far beyond whatever you would have set for her.
These thoughts are a little deep for a Monday - so it's Friday and I'm enjoying a fabulous Zinfandel Hayley's from Kamere Vinyards, CA. Here's a thought when selecting the people with whom you will share your wine:
Keep away from people who try to belittle your ambitions. Small people always do that, but the really great make you feel that you, too, can become great. ~ Mark Twain (1835–1910) American humorist and writer
Thursday, December 11, 2008
Journal the Way
My daughter recently asked me what I write about in my diary. Grinning, I realized that my journal is the equivalent to her diary. I told her that I mostly write about my personal thoughts as they relate to me ( i.e. what I think, I believe, I desire and I feel). And yes, I write about boys too: my husband and son. I feel journaling is great start to figuring out "what's up?" when things don't feel right .
I confess, I am an on again off again journal writer. Daily journal entries do not exist in my book. Whew, I'm glad that's off my chest. Many people are reluctant to start a journal because it might add to their mental failure list. The usual statement is, "I don't want to start a journal because I wont keep it up." Well what does "keep it up" mean? Nobody writes the rules for your journal use but you. Let the leader in you decide when you will write.
Beware, your decision to express free-will does lead to inner and outer greatness. Others may notice your personal growth and see you as leader in your own life. You are constantly modeling the way for everyone around you - no pressure.
My actions are modeling the way for the next generation. My daughter feels no pressure to write daily. I did not ask her what she writes in her "diary." Again, model the way and respect what the personal thoughts of others. I believe she has greater ownership in her thoughts by simply writing them down.
Check out this link: http://www.positivityblog.com/index.php/2008/12/10/5-kick-ass-reasons-to-use-a-journal-and-how-to-do-it/
I confess, I am an on again off again journal writer. Daily journal entries do not exist in my book. Whew, I'm glad that's off my chest. Many people are reluctant to start a journal because it might add to their mental failure list. The usual statement is, "I don't want to start a journal because I wont keep it up." Well what does "keep it up" mean? Nobody writes the rules for your journal use but you. Let the leader in you decide when you will write.
Beware, your decision to express free-will does lead to inner and outer greatness. Others may notice your personal growth and see you as leader in your own life. You are constantly modeling the way for everyone around you - no pressure.
My actions are modeling the way for the next generation. My daughter feels no pressure to write daily. I did not ask her what she writes in her "diary." Again, model the way and respect what the personal thoughts of others. I believe she has greater ownership in her thoughts by simply writing them down.
Check out this link: http://www.positivityblog.com/index.php/2008/12/10/5-kick-ass-reasons-to-use-a-journal-and-how-to-do-it/
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